Counseling to Enhance Women's Lives
If your mental health were your top priority, what would you do differently today? Use therapy to help you overcome obstacles, manage stress, cope with pain and progress toward being the person you want to be. As your psychologist I serve as your consultant and coach as well as your therapist. We work together to protect, build and sustain your well being, happiness and life satisfaction.
Many people wait a surprisingly long time to seek help. You can be different. Acknowledge and accept your vulnerabilities. Face problems to reduce their impact. Learn to recognize triggers. Practice healthier ways of handling thoughts and feelings. Take a fresh look at familiar responses. The past does not have to determine the future.
Tell Your Story
The counseling begins with telling your story. My practice provides a private setting to talk about areas for acceptance, growth or change. Therapy is different things for different people. You may just want talk to someone about what’s on your mind. You may be looking for information, tools or guidance. It may be helpful for you to have an accountability partner as you work to change habits or try out healthier ways of handing things. Everyone benefits from support and encouragement.
Access Individualized Professional Guidance
I use an integrative approach, drawing on various schools of therapy, best practices and lines of research to provide individualized care. My recommendations reflect a focus on what works for you. They link you with findings from cognitive behavioral therapy, developmental psychology, positive psychology and mindfulness practice. I'll be interested in what you are already doing to support your well-being - what practices, apps, websites, books or articles you find helpful.
Shift Your Stance
It's healthy to seek support during stressful times. As people we are deeply social. We find our way out of difficulties better with others than on our own. Talking to loved ones can be helpful. But, therapy offers something different - a private setting, time dedicated to you and access to a professional perspective. The pain that comes with tough times can be one of the most powerful motivators to learn and make positive change, if you so chose.
What in your life would you like to make a little bit better? Cultivate small-scale happiness. Small moments of satisfaction and appreciation feed and sustain well-being. Thinking or acting just a little differently can be surprisingly powerful. Each simple action strengthens new pathways, making it easier next time. Change takes its own time. Meanwhile, you build new, positive habits by repeating them again and again. They'll take the place of old ones that fall aside
Be Aware and Accept
Awareness, acceptance and change are linked. Awareness of thoughts, emotions and behavior sets the stage for reducing their negative impact. Acceptance can help you figure out better ways of managing what's bothering you. Awareness of what is going inside you can help you take care of yourself to better take care of your life. Both awareness and acceptance play a role in loosening up stuck emotions.
We will likely talk about how your experiences, thoughts, emotions, physical reactions and behavior influence one another and your life. We'll look at whether there are things you are doing that inadvertently maintain worry, sadness or fear. By drawing your attention to things that cause you pain you can gain understanding of them and learn to deal with them more effectively.
Let Actions Lead
Therapy includes articulating personal goals and taking steps toward them. It may involve practicing and strengthening skills, for example in the areas of stress management, emotion regulation, health behavior, self care, communication, assertiveness and/or managing negative feelings.
Small actions can be powerful, especially when they are repeated over time. One example of this the power of taking steps to reduce your avoidance of things you fear. Though your process in doing so may be gradual, incremental, full of ups and downs it is a practice that can be life-changing.
Inaction can also be liberating. Counseling sometimes involves encouragement to do less. If you run anxious, you may have noticed you have a tendency toward "doing-ness" and busy brain, which leads to overthinking and overworking. In this case, it will likely serve you to engage less your with anxious thoughts. The less you feed them, the weaker and less troublesome they become.
Enjoy Gratitude and Connection
Let's look ahead. Your mood is better. Of course, life still has its ups and downs. Tough things still come your way, as they do for everyone. But, your response to them feels different. You know what to watch for. You bounce back more quickly. You find yourself appreciating small things deeply. You experience a greater feeling of gratitude, of connection to people you love, an orientation toward meaning.
Start Feeling Better Today
What can you do today to boost your mental health and life satisfaction? Take time away from your screens. Move. Go outside. Meditate and/or do yoga. Drink and smoke less or not at all. Practice gratitude. Reach out to someone you care about. Be of service. What makes you feel awe? Do it. Orient your energy toward interesting or meaningful pursuits, things that inspire and uplift you, that give you a sense of purpose. Get help.
Ready to Move Forward?
It's your time to feel better. Contact me to get started.